Monday, September 27, 2010

Our Wedding: The Invitations

For our big day, I decided to take on the task of designing and assembling our invitations. I knew I would enjoy the project, because I had created my high school graduation announcements and had fun with it. But boy, did this turn out to be quite an undertaking! And let me tell you, it was not cheaper than purchasing my own. I think I paid over $600 for 150 invites. But as I've said before, our wedding was my ultimate creative outlet, so I was happy to incur the trouble and cost if it meant having fun and making something entirely unique.

It started with the idea of having a flower be the focal point of the invite. This is where my bridesmaid Mary entered the picture. Mary is a super talented watercolor artist and she can paint a mean flower. So I commissioned her to paint one for me and she happily obliged. We went to Garden Style florist and picked out a big lush garden rose (Mary said she always needs an image to go off, and live flowers are better than photos.) Mary ended up pulling the rose off the stem and letting the petals fall open a bit, and then she set to work to quickly paint it before it wilted too much. Of course she primarily used my wedding colors: peacock blue and coral.

Here's what she delivered to me. Pretty isn't it? (I have since trimmed it down and framed it for wall art.) She also painted a "frame" for me in the same colors that I could use for my reply card and wedding web site insert. So that was phase 1. Now I had to design the invite. I scanned the painting and opened it in Photoshop. At this point I spent several days searching for the perfect combo of fonts. Whew, this was hard! I finally decided on Porcelain for our names (remember this was four years ago before Porcelain became annoyingly popular) and another less scripty one for the rest. I came up with the wording (which was also hard!) and painstakingly formatted it. After the design passed the family/friend inspection, it was on to phase 3: printing.

First up: paper selection. I decided I needed to get the invite image printed professionally, which was a good choice. Printing on an inkjet at home = big headache. I found a company near my home that does all the printing for one of the big hospitals here in Tyler, and they let me puruse through all their paper sample books. I wanted something with as much texture as possible, kind of like watercolor paper. They didn't have anything perfect but I did finally decide on something with a fair amount of visual interest to it. I emailed the printers the files and came back a week or so later to a big stack of cut invites, reply cards, and web site inserts. Up next: embellishment and assembly.

At this point Hobby Lobby became my second home and my home became a small factory. I had to buy lots of scrapbooking supplies, including a pretty gold vellum paper. I trimmed this a little bigger than the printed invites, rounded the corners with a decorative punch, then glued the invite to it so it had a pretty gold frame. Every item in the suite had rounded corners so needless to say my hands were super sore from all the punching.

I found pretty gold invites online, and took them to yet another printer to have my parents' return address printed on the back flap. I also had custom postage stamps made with a discount code from Zazzle. I addressed all of them myself, which was something I battled doing because I don't have the greatest handwriting. (But it's better than my mum's so whatcha gonna do?) At long last they were complete and I sent my little babies out into the world to do their job.


Would I do it all again? For me, the process is just as enjoyable, if not more so, than the finished product, so yes. But I know I could have found some really cute ones somewhere online and spent about the same amount and had great invites. But they wouldn't have been one-of-a-kind, either.

For a less labor intensive but still custom option, you could go the route my sister did for her beautiful invites.

And on another note, if you are one of my brides, I would love it if you'd mail me one of your invitations. They can really give me a feel for the look and tone of your day!

Monday, September 20, 2010

Nicole & Chase's Wedding | Tyler, Texas


Sweet.

That's the best word to describe Nicole and Chase's wedding day. It was full of pink, and lace, and fluffy flowers and little girls and dolls and tears, lots of tears. Nicole was brimming over with excitement and emotion all day. There's even a moment after the ceremony when Nicole says "We're married guys! I'm so excited. Just so excited," and I believe her because she looked so happy I wouldn't be suprised if she fainted or burst into tears. And not only was Nicole happy, she was incredibly kind. Since I've edited their video, there have been times when I've thought to myself that I need to be more like Nicole- positive and upbeat with no hint of cynicism or impatience whatsoever. She's an elementary teacher and I know her students must adore her. I wasn't around Chase quite as much throughout the day, but I know they are perfect for each other. They've been dating a long time, and Chase seems like a rock, but tempered with tenderness.

I love this highlights because there is so much genuine emotion, starting with the opening shot, which to me demonstrates perfectly the appeal of video. (Nicole and Chase chose to have their wedding on Nicole's grandparents' anniversary.)



Location: Eagle's Bluff Country Club
Photographer: Donna Cummings
Dress: Weddings A to Z
Florist: La Tee Da

Nicole's mom said, among other things, "I do believe that the money for your talented video, and Nicole's dress, is the best money that was spent."

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Wedding Films as Heirloom & History

When you get your wedding filmed, you're not just doing it for you and your spouse, or even your parents or friends. Ultimately, you're doing it for your kids, and their kids, and so on. It not only helps you relive your big day, it shows future generations what you, and your big day, were like. Think about it: what would you give to be able to watch your grandparents' wedding video- to see grandma putting on her dress with her mother, and hear grandpa joking around with his groomsmen? What a priceless treasure that would be!


Did you know that that film reels can last at least a century? For example, check out this 105 year old wedding film!




It's not very often that we get to watch a snippet of real life from 1905, much less a royal wedding! The above video clip was included in an interesting article by BBC News about the value of seemingly-mundane family films and the clues they give us about our collective and individual history. Whenever you get your wedding filmed in Super 8, in addition to your edited DVD's we also give you your actual film reels. So if you store them in a safe, cool, dry place, your grandkids and great grandkids, etc. will potentially be able to watch it.

And speaking of kids, I'd like to share again my parent's 1975 wedding film. This was shot by a family friend, and for their anniversary my dad hired me to have it digitized and then edit it. As you can imagine it was an incredibly fun and rewarding project for me.




I don't want to get all sales-y on you here, but I do want to encourage you to consider the long-term value of having your wedding beautifully filmed. You're not just having the event documented, you're creating a family heirloom.

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Laura Lacey & Brandon's Wedding | Monroe, Louisiana

When I first arrived at the church to start filming, I found Brandon, who was in the hallway and introduced himself as "Brandon's brother". Not ever having met Brandon, I greeted him and then asked if I could meet the groom. At which point Brandon walked into a room and closed the door, then came right back out and introduced himself as Brandon. A very confusing moment for me ensued, but I quickly figured out that what I had on my hands was a sneaky teasing groom. (Who also nearly tricked me into believing that his scruffy old New Balance tennis shoes were his shoe of choice with his tux and held great sentimental value.)

So needless to say it was a fun day. Laura Lacey and Brandon were excited to have us there in Monroe, and it was a pleasure filming an event that clearly had lots of thought poured into its planning. Plus these two are so clearly in love. I just get the impression that they are very close. I loved their first look, where they just embraced each other and then spent the next two minutes forehead to forehead gazing into each other's eyes whispering who knows what to each other. It was like we weren't even there. Then the ceremony featured really lovely handwritten vows, and some tears, and a salt pouring ceremony, and some laughter. And the reception, which was beautifully decorated, had as its entertainment a recreation of the Newlywed Game. After that we headed outside for a photo shoot overlooking the river at sunset. Laura Lacey's "Just Married" parasol was the perfect accessory.

Thanks you two (plus Brandon's brother) for having us with you on your big day!




Laura Lacey said, "Wow! The video is awesome! We love it! It definitely came unexpectedly and at the best time (we had just gotten frustrated at hanging crown molding). They are beautiful and we will probably be ordering more for parents and the like eventually. I want a whole Vanessa McKellar library with those fancy albums lined up with my favorite weddings. Ha. I can't say enough wonderful things...thanks Vanessa...you just gave us something we can cherish and share with our families."

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Unbridled Boudoir

I want to introduce my readers to my friend Tammy and her company Unbridled Boudoir. You may already be familiar with boudoir photography; basically it's sexy pretty pictures of yourself that you typically give as a gift to your husband. Super fun for the both of you! Tammy is a really talented photographer, and one of her biggest strengths in my opinion is making you look good. I know this because she has photographed Brent and me and I really like the way I look in the pics. Plus she's creative, friendly, and fun!


Here's what her we site has to say about boudoir pics; you can visit the site for more FAQ's:

Boudoir photography is a wonderful experience, a true confidence builder. Though you may have a few nerves when the session starts, you'll feel like you owned it by the time the session is over! Many women find that boudoir photography makes a wonderful gift for a special occasion. This could be for a wedding gift, special birthday or anniversary, or simply for yourself. There is no better reason to celebrate yourself than by bringing out your inner supermodel!

If you're looking for something special for yourself and your honey, don't hesitate to give Tammy a call and set up an appointment; I know you'll be happy you did!

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Melissa & Cace Wedding Video | Longview, Texas

This is one of those weddings where I kinda don't know where to start, it was just so great. I guess I should start with the bride and groom: these two are awesome. First off- super sweet and willing to try anything. I'd ask Cace to do a little something and he'd cheerfully say, "Yeah, sure! Whatever you want!!" Dream groom for me. And dream groom for Melissa I'm sure. He was so happy he was borderline giddy, especially right after the ceremony when he couldn't stop laughing. It's obvious these two are smitten with each other, and perfect for each other.

For your enjoyment, here is their highlights montage:



Melissa was ravishing in her dress. Oh, the dress. When I saw it, my first reaction was, "I want it!" which is entirely ridiculous. But the texture and glow of the fabric, the poofy flower under the bust, the unique cut, plus the veil and flower in her hair...gorgeous! It was a perfect centerpiece to the "look" of the day- rustic country done with lavish elegance. Passionflower Designs executed the theme and did such an overwhelming job tying it all together. There were so many details; I want to share some of them with you:

- You saw her programs and a favor in my recent video post.

- The altar was decorated with dozens and dozens of candles, so it looked liked fireflies twinkling up there among the flowers during the ceremony.

- There were groupings of paper cut-out birds tied to twine dangling from the reception tent. Plus small round glass vases with single flowers in them. Plus a huge "chandelier" hanging over the dance floor decorated with candles and flowers.

- The cake table was beautiful: a scrolled rusty-metal cake stand, and pretty fabric overlaid with a paper tablecloth with butterfly cut-outs in it, plus silverware in the shape of branches.

- The groom's cake was actually several bundt cakes in the barn, in the same room with the espresso bar and classical guitarists.

- They created a sign post that they put outside that pointed the way to "dancing", "java", "Waco" etc.

- On two walls were strings of photographs of Melissa and Cace and their friends and family.

- Also in the barn there were small tables with lampshades suspended from the ceiling over the floral centerpieces.

- Outside of the tent they created yet another eating area by building a maypole-like structure out of poles and lights, and setting up tables underneath the warm glow.

- The table settings in the tent were amazing: flowers surrounded by ceramic candle holders and votives, green glasses, table numbers made out of branches, wire, and moss, stylish green chargers topped with mini bird's nests filled with aqua Jordan Almonds, and my perhaps my favorite detail: large chilled S. Pellegrino water bottles, with a bottle opener and cork tied to the neck with string. Seriously, can you say "Attention to detail?!?"

I enjoy the aesthetics of weddings and like to share these things with my readers so that they might be inspired for their own event. I know that weddings aren't about the details- it's about celebrating a new life together. It's the memories made: the laughter, rituals, kisses, music and singing, words spoken, the culmination of dreams, and the creation of a happy new family.


And if you still want more, you can watch their feature length film:



And in case you missed it before, you can check out their trailer here.

Melissa said, "WOW! Cace and I were pleasantly surprised to find your package on our doorstep this week. From the amazing packaging to the deleted scenes, we were so impressed with your work. Thank you sooo much for such a gift. As we watched we laughed, we cried (with joy!), and were perfectly reminded of what a special day that was. We have been enjoying married life sooo much. We are so happy to feel like we are constantly falling more in love with one another and your beautiful video added to this even more. THANK YOU! I can't say thank you enough!

It was amazing and we can't wait to show our friends and family! It was so special and you captured every moment. We are so happy and thankful.
God has given you an amazing gift of capturing such special moments in such a creative way. Thank you again for sharing your gift with us.

THANKS AGAIN.. and WOW!
"


Coordinator: Pam Gosschalk, gosschalk@sbcglobal.net
Photographer: Sam Smead
Church: First Baptist Longview
Reception: Flying Feathers Ranch
Band: Downtown Fever, Dallas